He Reads My Messages but Doesn't Reply for Hours

Title sounds a bit whack because what I was trying to ask didn't fit. If a guy opens your messages (with reads) just usually doesn't respond til the next twenty-four hour period or a few hours later, is he non that bothered?

(Original post by Anonymous)
Championship sounds a fleck whack considering what I was trying to inquire didn't fit. If a guy opens your messages (with reads) but commonly doesn't reply til the next day or a few hours later on, is he non that bothered?

Might exist trying to call up of a adept/advisable way to respond. Might be in the middle of doing something of import when he gets the message etc.

(Original post by an_atheist)
Might exist trying to think of a proficient/advisable way to respond. Might be in the middle of doing something important when he gets the message etc.

Thanks for your answer. Become that merely I but tin can't help but think if I should even carp talking to him anymore (exercise quite like him) cuz I don't want to enter in a one-sided relationship ... quite dramatic but yeah lol. If I like someone I usually read and reply in like 20 mins max...

Could be a lot of things:
Doesn't know what to say
Cba
Non interested
Busy
...etc

Sometimes I like to reply to texts properly when I wake upwards, if I'm tired I don't want to be sending silly things that would brand me look like a fool.

I'one thousand guessing it'southward non interested etc ... considering the topic is never anything that requires much thought. Thanks for your reply

(Original mail by Anonymous)
I'm guessing it'due south not interested etc ... because the topic is never annihilation that requires much thought. Thank you for your reply

Well it could be considering the topic is tedious/small talk? Personally, i take a while to respond to minor talk -though yh I'm non a guy.

(Original mail by UWS)
Sometimes I like to reply to texts properly when I wake up, if I'thou tired I don't want to be sending silly things that would brand me look like a fool.

Thanks for your respond. I have no idea because final week we were sending letters almost music or something and it would be a day betwixt each answer and after one of his replies I just patched information technology because I knew it was a stupid conversation. But then he popped up during the week asking what I was doing at the weekend, talked to me back and forth til about 1am on Wed night (kinda flirty) and then begins this 24-hour interval replying lag. So confusing

Yep the topics are quite boring but whenever I try and inject some sense of humour or annihilation into it he doesn't pick up on it. All the signals advise he's not interested but I experience similar he peradventure is a bit. Meh dunno.

maybe he might exist exhausted from texting.

Sometimes If texting the same person lots and lots I start to go lazy with replying quickly........

tbh, information technology'south hard to say.

With girls though, there definitely seems to be a correlation with how interested they are and how promptly they text back.

(Original post by ANM775)
maybe he might be exhausted from texting.

Sometimes If texting the same person lots and lots I kickoff to get lazy with replying quickly........

tbh, information technology's difficult to say.

With girls though, there definitely seems to be a correlation with how interested they are and how promptly they text back.

I've not known him for long at all, in fact i've never met him. We met on Twitter and he lives in the same city as me. Whenever we text it's like one or ii sentences at a fourth dimension which have a day delayed response I just don't desire to embarrass myself by continuing to talk to him if he's non interested. Other guys answer within like 5 mins of opening messages so Idk how to gauge this

(Original mail by Anonymous)
Cheers for your answer. Get that but I just can't help merely think if I should even carp talking to him anymore (practice quite similar him) cuz I don't want to enter in a i-sided relationship ... quite dramatic only yeah lol. If I like someone I usually read and reply in like twenty mins max...

I take a while to respond to most texts, fifty-fifty longer if I like them in a romantic sense just because I'm trying to work out the 'best' way to respond.
I wouldn't place much stock in not responding immediately personally merely if it annoys you that much then you should ask him about how he feels about y'all.

Merely started talking to him final week as well

(Original post by an_atheist)
I take a while to respond to most texts, even longer if I like them in a romantic sense only considering I'chiliad trying to work out the 'all-time' way to reply.
I wouldn't place much stock in not responding immediately personally only if it annoys you that much then yous should ask him about how he feels well-nigh you.

Thank you for your perspective ... I've only talked to him for a calendar week so it would exist a bit psycho to brainstorm with those questions lol! I'll wait it out and meet.....

(Original mail service by Anonymous)
Thank you for your perspective ... I've but talked to him for a week so information technology would exist a bit psycho to begin with those questions lol! I'll wait information technology out and encounter.....

Was under the impression you'd been talking longer than that. Waiting is probably the best course of action and then, every bit you say.

(Original post past an_atheist)
Was nether the impression y'all'd been talking longer than that. Waiting is probably the best course of activeness and so, as you say.

I've never been in a relationship earlier so I'm not super knowledgeable on this sort of stuff. How long would you lot conversation to someone before request how they experience do you call up? If you were still unsure

Tbh i did this to someone I was talking to, I think i was merely busy doing something else at the time and my attention got caught abroad... I realised I aired her for like iii days looool.
If its a one off its okay, simply if its a regular thing I'd say he's not interested

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If someone is really interested, they dont take forever to respond. I remember when me and my beau started talking nosotros used to text all day till in the forenoon.. It was so unhealthy only we both only couldnt get enough of each other.

Sounds pretty dull on your side though. Folk who are interested shouldnt take a day or hours to respond.

Maybe he's:
- Busy
- Taking fourth dimension to call back of a skilful reply
- Not interested in pointless chit-conversation (this is the main reason I ignore most of my friends' letters...)
- Merely not into texting
- Not interested in you in that style
etc.

If you've just been chatting for a couple of weeks though and never met up, it's not surprising tbh - you've never met or hung out, how does he know if y'all're actually an interesting person IRL? That's non to propose you meet up with him though...

How near you try and change your messages from idle chatter and ask him questions/ audio interested in his day/ send him articles you found interesting then chat near them, etc.? If you have something you lot are both interested in, talking about this hobby and sharing things yous savor are a skillful fashion of keeping upwardly a conversation. I ever become bellyaching when friends send pointless "hey, how are you lot?" blazon messages - they never lead into an interesting conversation and I don't really know how to answer. Instead, audio genuinely interested, for instance by request specific questions like "how was the concert last night" or "just saw this article on the news, I found it really interesting that ..., what do yous recall?" etc.

I but do this to girls when they have a dead convo or air me first, if a daughter airs my message for 10 mins ill wanna wait a lil bit so information technology dosnt seem like im so clingy lol

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